SURVIVORS
AFTER SUICIDE - A SELF-HELP GROUP
About 100,000 people die due to suicide in India in
a year. This accounts for nearly 10% of the total suicides
in the world. For every suicide there are many survivors
whose lives are profoundly affected emotionally, socially
and economically.
More
importantly, people who lose someone by suicide are
at a higher risk of engaging in suicidal behaviour themselves.
Understanding the special needs of these people who
have suffered this difficult kind of loss in silence,
Survivors After Suicide or SAS was launched in 2004.
This
service, hitherto unavailable anywhere else in our country
helps people come to terms with their grief and pain
in their own way and move forward in their lives positively
and productively.
The
SAS programme consists of 8 weekly group meetings of
2 hours each. The group is made up of 10 to 15 people
who have lost someone to suicide and understand the
pain involved. Each group has two co-ordinators –
a professional therapist and a volunteer. The best part
is that this programme is offered absolutely free of
charge; and, whatever shared is held in confidence among
the group members.
A
few facts...
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Suicide
survivors are not attempters. |
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There
are also family members, others who survive following
the death of their loved one by suicide. |
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About
1 lac people die by suicide in India every year. |
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Each
suicide leaves at least 7 people devastated. |
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7 lacs
people become survivors every year in India. |
What factors make suicide
Grief and Bereavement different?
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Suicide
death is sudden and unexpected. |
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Death
by suicide often leaves unfinished, irresolvable
issues. |
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Death
by suicide is often violent. |
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Suicide
often occurs in systems already experiencing stress. |
Feelings/ Emotions
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Survivor
Grief |
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Shock
and Numbness |
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Denial |
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Search
for a reason for the suicide … Why? |
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Shame |
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Guilt
and Blame |
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Loss
and Depression |
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Isolation
and Confusion |
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Loneliness
and Social Isolation |
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Heightened
Suicide Risk |
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